8 MINUTE DATING Speed date with super drink specials and free munchies. For ages 21-31. Tue., Oct. 25, 7:30pm, $20-$35. Queue Restaurant, 1718 Sansom St., 215-569-4869.

EXOTIQUE PARTY Hosted by Lady Chandra and Madam X, this fetish/BDSM meet is open to singles and couples of all genders and sexual orientations. BYOB and nudity is permitted. Every Fri., 10pm-4am, $15-$25. The Pleasure Garden Club, 6039 Passyunk Ave., www.exotiqueparty.com.

FRISKY FRIDAYS A no-pressure environment for couples, single ladies and a limited number of single men to play. Every Fri., 8:30pm-2am, $25-$100, Club Kama Sutra. Call 866-258-2257 or visit www.clubkamasutra.com to register.

HELLCAT BURLESQUE Catch the girls in all their tease-a-rama glory opening for rockabilly Devil Doll. Fri., Oct. 21, 9pm, $8-$10. Emerald City, 2nd St. between Callowhill & Spring Garden sts.

HOT BOTTOMS CONTEST It's a Pajama Party featuring DJ Carl Michaels and the opening of Bedroom. Fri., Oct. 21, 9pm, free if you wear your PJSs. Shampoo, Willow St., between 7th & 8th, 215-922-7500.

LIGHT MY FIRE Feel the heat with an evening of fire-eating, fire-cupping and hot wax. See Mix Pick on p. 60. Fri., Oct. 21, 7pm-9pm, $35-$60. Passional, 704 S. 5th., 215-829-4986, www.fantasyworkshops.com.

READY SET MEET Meet a mate in minutes at this speed-dating event for singles ages 35-50. Tue., Oct. 25, 6pm-8pm, $35. Rembrandt's, 23rd & Aspen sts., pre-register only at williamsstein@comcast.net or 215-356-2554.

SEXY WITCH WORKSHOP Get in touch -- no pun intended -- with your inner goddess. Lady Chandra Mors shows you how. Meets every Mon., 7-9pm, through Nov. 21, $70. Register online at www.passional.us. Passional, 704 S. 5th. St., 215-829-4986.

WET G-STRING PARTY Take a shot at the ladies with water gun fun, hosted by Richard Christy. Fri., Oct. 21, 8pm, $10. Club Risque, 1700 S. Columbus Blvd., 215-463-6900..